August 05 '06

                                                    

Volume 531

                   


Organ Recital Sheila Hess Performs

Northminster CongregationWhile we already knew of the event, it was nice of Sheila Hess to send us an invitation to her organ recital at Northminster Baptist Church in Jackson, MS. Barbara and I aren't what one might call organ music aficionados, but we are strong supporters of the family of Jim and Sheila Hess. Sheila has worked hard to improve her musical abilities for quite a few years and continues to study organ under Billy Trotter in Clinton, MS.

Our daughter, Rayanne, plays the organ for First Baptist Church, Belmont, MS, and while she plays well enough for the congregation, she is well aware of her limited ability with respect to playing the organ, for the complexity of the piano pales in comparison to that of the organ. She is an outstanding pianist, and our family is proud of her musical accomplishments.

When Rayanne found out we planned to attend Sheila's recital, she began to consider how she might work the trip into her busy routine. As, I recall, on the day before the recital, Rayanne phoned Barbara and related that she and "the girls" wanted to ride with us to Jackson. With five people, I decided that for the sake of comfort we would travel in Barbara's Buick rather than in my company car.

Rayanne, Merilese, and Katherine arrived around two-thirty, but by the time all the things needed for the trip were transferred from two vehicles into one, it was three o'clock and time for us to leave. I have learned to expect one or two stops whenever I'm making a three-hour drive with a group of females. We were but one hour into the trip when Merilese needed a bathroom break. Naturally, the closest facility was still about fifteen minutes away, but she made it. Thirty minutes, later another stop was required. And, by the time we arrived at the church, several of us needed a bathroom break.

It was about six o'clock when we located the parking area behind Northminster. Much of the available parking area is under construction, and I worried if we left to find the wee ones a bathroom and something to eat, the parking lot might be filled when we returned. A couple of cookies and a container of sweet tea were sufficient to stay their appetites until after the program.

Less than a dozen cars were on the parking lot when we returned. A security guard opened the backdoor for us, and we found our way from the basement to the sanctuary at street level. We found programs for the recital just outside the entrance to the sanctuary, and we walked inside to claim a seat before all the good ones were taken.

It wasn't long before a few familiar faces arrived. Lee Gordon of West Point, his wife Connie, and granddaughter Morgan came in to sit behind us. Also, Lee's sister, Janell, and her husband Tom Hill, both of Vicksburg joined them. Afterwards, Jim and Sheila made a brief appearance to speak to us prior to the recital. In a few more minutes, Courtney Loving, the Hess's older daughter arrived. Courtney, Alan, and Mary Addison Loving are soon to move from Birmingham, AL to Clinton, MS, where Alan will be a youth minister for one of the Baptist churches.

We made small talk with the Gordon family and a lady who sat with the Gordons, whose name none of us recall hearing. She and Rayanne talked at length about Belmont and music, so I gathered she is affiliated with the Music Department for the Mississippi Baptist Convention Board in Jackson.

I would share the names of some of the selections that Sheila played in her recital, but I seem to have misplaced my copy of the program. I was not familiar with any of the pieces and only recognized one of the composers, namely, J.S. Bach.

The organ had been turned on the podium so that the audience could observe the organist's footwork and fingering, which added to our appreciation of all that is required of an organist. While not the largest of pipe organs in the state of Mississippi, the organ at Northminster is bigger than most.

The console has three keyboards and more stops than I took time to count. Also, an impressive array of pipes is exposed, the longest of which are sixteen feet in length. I'm told the church plans to add more capabilities to the organ to the tune of approximately one million dollars. It is enough to assure me the church leaders have no immediate plans to rip out the organ and make room for a band in order to accommodate "the contemporary crowd."

Sheila Hess is a person of small stature, but her performance was anything but small. She was, as they say, "all over the keyboard(s)." Her footwork on the bass registers was equally impressive, and there were occasions when only her feet were playing. Even when her page-turner didn't turn the page soon enough, Sheila managed the chore nimbly, and to my ear, didn't miss a note. Such was Sheila's performance that Rayanne told her, afterwards, that she might never play the organ again. But, moments later Rayanne inquired where she could purchase a pair of organ-shoes like Sheila was wearing.

I won't ever understand the near addiction that music holds for Sheila, but I recognize its importance to her life, and I admire her dedication. She said she doubted she would have another recital as it demands many hours of preparation and hard work. Though, I expect she'll do another one next year or the next, and if she does, we'll be there.


Sue Nabors 1934 - 2006

I was teaching 8th grade mathematics at Ripley High School at the time Fairy Mauney pulled me aside to discuss a problem she had with one of her seventh grade English students.

"Rob Nabors needs a paddling," she confided, "but, I don’t think I can bring myself to paddle him. He has cancer, and it is terminal. Mr. Rutherford would do it, but I don’t want to send Rob to the principal, and I’m afraid if I don’t have him punished, he’ll just get worse in my class."

Rob was the twin brother of Ray Nabors and both were sons of Sue Nabors. They were all persons I knew as members of the community, but I had no contact with them outside of the school environment.

Because I knew Fairy Mauney to be fair-minded, I was convinced she considered the punishment was fair and necessary. I agreed to her request with the understanding, I would use far more restraint with the blows than I might have for anyone else in need of a paddling. As I recall, three light spats were administered. Afterwards, Fairy reported that Rob’s classroom behavior was greatly improved. Rob died later that year with cancer.

I left the Ripley school system in 1970 and lost track of the Nabors. Then one Sunday, morning about four years ago, Sue showed up at First Baptist Church with Jerry Young, who had recently moved back to Pontotoc. I didn’t recognize Sue, but Barbara later told me that she did. After the church service, Barbara and I spoke briefly to Jerry and Sue. Jerry was working for a law firm in Tupelo and Sue was living in Tupelo and working as an anesthetist for North Mississippi Medical Center. Jerry and Sue dated for several years but only married a few months ago.

Barbara and I attended a party at Sue’s home in 2003, and saw for the first time in more than thirty years two of Sue’s grown children, Ray and Rosemary.

In 2004, while facing prostate surgery, Larry Young, Jerry’s brother, mentioned that I could request the anesthetist of my choice. Naturally, Larry suggested Sue Nabors, so I passed along my choice to my doctor, and Sue took good care of me in the operating room.

Earlier this year, Sue Nabors was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and was told she had only a few more months to live. At the time I heard the devastating news, Larry Young reported Sue had responded better than expected to the early treatments for her disease. Yet, in the end, Sue succumbed to her illness. Sue Nabors died on July 31, 2006, one day before her seventy-second birthday.

In closing, I can’t think of a better statement than the one contained in her obituary notice, "[Sue] devoted her life to helping those she met and those in need. Never at a loss for words or a story to tell, she will be greatly missed."


Bodock Beau Insights From The Very Young

The following came our way this week, thanks to Cheryl Radford of Southaven MS. 

An elderly woman and her little grandson, whose face was sprinkled with bright freckles, spent the day at the zoo. Lots of children were waiting in line to get their cheeks painted by a local artist who was painting them with tiger paws.

"You've got so many freckles, there's no place to paint!" a girl in the line said to the little fellow.

Embarrassed, the little boy dropped his head. His grandmother knelt down next to him.

"I love your freckles. When I was a little girl I always wanted freckles," she said, while tracing her finger across the child's cheek. "Freckles are beautiful!"

The boy looked up, "Really?"

"Of course," said the grandmother. "Why, just name me one thing that's prettier than freckles."

The little boy thought for a moment, peered intensely into his grandma's face, and softly whispered, "Wrinkles."

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A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like. "We used to skate outside on a pond. I had a swing made from a tire; it hung from a tree in our front yard. We rode our pony. We picked wild raspberries in the woods."

The little girl was wide-eyed, taking this in. At last she said, "I sure wish I'd gotten to know you sooner!"

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When my grandson asked me how old I was, I teasingly replied "I'm not sure.

"Look in your underwear, Grandma," he advised. "Mine says I'm four."

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A second grader came home from school and said to her mother, "Mom, guess what? We learned how to make babies today." 

The mother, more than a little surprised, tried to keep her cool.  "That's interesting," she said. "How do you make babies?"  

"It's simple," replied the girl. "You just change "y" to "i" and add 'es'."

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"Give me a sentence about a public servant," said a teacher.

The small boy wrote: "The fireman came down the ladder pregnant."

The teacher took the lad aside to correct him. "Don't you know what pregnant means?" she asked.

"Sure," said the young boy confidently. "It means carrying a child."

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A nursery school teacher was delivering a station wagon full of kids home one day when a fire truck zoomed past. Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog. The children started discussing the dog's duties.

"They use him to keep crowds back," said one youngster.

"No," said another, "he's just for good luck."

A third child brought the argument to a close..."They use the dogs," she said firmly, "to find the fire hydrant."

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